Wrangler Dani

Writer, editor, wife, adoptive mama and cowgirl living in beautiful Central Oregon.

Gratitude Project: In-Laws

You know how Mother-in-Law jokes, go, right? It seems that everybody has a horror story, a difficult situation or a trying circumstance with their in-laws. Families have their own social order, their own systems of government, their own normal and their own standards, and marrying into one of these complex ecosystems is a daunting task for any mortal.

We took Mom and Warren to Tumalo Falls and Shevlin Park when they were here! It was a little drizzly, but still pretty.
We took Mom and Warren to Tumalo Falls and Shevlin Park when they were here! It was a little drizzly, but still pretty.

I count myself among the blessed, though, because my in-laws are truly remarkable. Adam’s dad loves to tell the story of how he told Adam not to let me get away, and from the first time we met, they have treated me just like one of their kids.

They are generous, fun-loving, caring, hearty laughers and amazing cooks. When both sets of parents came to visit this summer and fall, they jumped into our lives with joy – we had several breathless belly-laughs, multiple great conversations and made memories that will last forever.

Floating the river with Dad and Katie this summer.
Floating the river with Dad and Katie this summer.

I’m constantly amazed at God’s goodness – he knew that I would love Texas, and let me marry the perfect Texan for me, in an amazing family that envelopes us in love – I’m so grateful that I got two more sets of parents, an incredible sister (and soon a brother-in-law!) and an amazing extended family.

I know that everyone isn’t so blessed with their in-laws, but for me, they are one of the many incredible by-products of being married to the love of my life.

In a couple of days, we’ll be in Texas with them for a week, and while many people dread a long visit at the in-laws, I can’t wait! I’m so proud and grateful to be a Nichols.

Ashley and I after TCU won the Rose Bowl. We might have cried. ;)
Ashley and I after TCU won the Rose Bowl a couple of years ago (we need to take more pictures, Ash!). We might have cried. 😉

3 comments found

  1. Dani…we’re very excited you guys are coming too! These are very kind words and we feel very blessed to have you in our family…we truly gained another great daughter with you! Love you!

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